Friday, June 17, 2005

The Heterosexual Lifestyle

It seems that every other day I am reading a story about some hetero mother or father who has murdered their children. Often in very horrific ways. The story linked above is even more horrible than usual because it involved child molestation and incest as well.

What is it about these heteros that they do not know how to take care of their children? Gay couples treat their kids as if they were gifts from heaven (which they are). We pamper and spoil them, dote on them constantly. We guard and protect them 24 hours a day.

Could it be that the het set takes these children for granted? Maybe it is because they come so easily to them. One drunken night and the next thing they know they are having a baby. They do not have to go through the hoops and minefields that gays must (mostly) do in order to become parents. Somehow children have become a cheap commodity to these hets.

Maybe they should make straights go through all that we do in order to reproduce. Make them go through evaluations at least to see if they are fit to breed. Judging from all of the news stories, that just might save a lot of young lives.

Thursday, June 09, 2005

The Fallacy of Ronald Reagan

Last week US News and World Report had Reagan on the cover, remembering his D-Day, 1984 speech in Europe. Does anyone remember his speech - except Republican stalwarts? Where do they get this stuff about him being a great president? I guess the Republicans are really grasping at straws trying to find a great Republican president to lionize. After all there have been only two, Teddy Roosevelt (who was hated by most Republicans of his day) and Abraham Lincoln.

What were Reagan's accomplishments exactly? He did make us feel better about ourselves, and he gave very moving speeches. He was a trained actor after all, so I am sure he saw it as just another B-movie part.

Did Reagan help end the Cold War? That is a stretch. There were only two people without whom the Cold War would not have ended, Gorbachev and Pope John Paul II. Reagan's "Tear Down This Wall" speech was a joke. How many other presidents had said the same thing. And the Star Wars defense project, if the Soviets had any Intelligence at all, they had to know it did not work (and still doesn't).

He did manage to do in eight years what had taken 200 years to do before, and that is - double the deficit. He did bring us trickle down economics, which we still have with GB the 2nd. Yes, if we just let those rich folks make more money, some of it will eventually trickle down to us. Are you wet yet? I know I'm not.

He did manage to ignore AIDS for most of his presidency. Within three years of Clinton taking office we had a viable treatment for HIV Disease. With Reagan we had mostly silence.

I think GB the 1st had greater accomplishments and did what the country needed in spite of the political costs. Something Reagan never did. He only thought about the here and now, not what was best for the country in the long run. Sound familiar?

This is what Merriam-Webster Online had to say about him:

One entry found for Reagan. Main Entry: Rea·gan
Pronunciation: 'rA-g&n
Function: biographical name
Ronald Wilson 1911- American actor & politician; 40th president of the U.S. (1981-89); achieved a significantly lower rate of inflation; lowered personal income taxes; greatly increased defense spending while reducing expenditures on social programs

I forgot about the inflation thing. You have to give him credit for that. Even if he had to double the deficit to do it.

Saturday, June 04, 2005

California Dreamin'

Well, we almost made it to the Promised Land this week. The California Assembly came within four votes of legalizing gay marriage in the nation's largest state.

I don't know which is worse, if they had voted it in, and then there was a national backlash, or they didn't vote it in and we still don't have gay marriage in any state (that was not court ordered).

How people cannot see that this is just a question of basic civil rights is beyond me. The one argument the right wing always goes to first is that this could lead to group marriage, marrying your dog, etc. They can never just stick with the issue itself. Two adults of the same gender entering into a holy/civil union. That's probably because their argument is far weaker if they just stick to the issue. Two people, together forever (more or less).

They complain about the promiscuity of gay men, and then deny us the one thing that would help us all to settle down into well ordered lives. Not that that is for everyone, I understand that. There are plenty of folks, gay and straight, who think monogamy is unnatural and not in the least bit desirable. But for the rest of us, it gives us the one thing we long for, stability.

Study after study has shown that married folks live longer (not necessarily happier) lives. Having all the hundreds of rights that come along with marriage, not to mention the social supports for our relationships, would go a long way toward putting us all on an equal footing. The love that dare not speak its name would be the same as any other love.

I don't know how long it will be before America comes to it senses and stops thinking that heterosexual love is better than any other. We are all equal here, that is the point of this great experiment we call America.